Beginning of the journey
How to find something to dream
Finding a goal is as simple as dreaming about something "I would like to" but honestly, many negative thought patterns may go through your mind, but underneath there will be a little voice that will say "I would like to sing" and it can immediately be flooded in waves of counter-arguments, titled "but". You can turn it around and say to yourself:
"I really want to"
When we actually make decisions and try to break through, each time will be much easier, and we will fall into a development spiral. It will stand in front of all the thoughts and people that try to distract us from it and they will not make an impression on us. then you are able to see the potential, you want to act and achieve your goals, when you see the first results of your work, then you are charged with positive energy of action, it is an amazing feeling. When we actually take actions in the direction we have chosen and it makes sense.
Old habits may want to come back like boomerangs once thrown out with the hope that they won't come back, but no one said we have to play like this forever. We can put aside what came back to us and had control over us, it is up to us what decisions we make. We can find something to learn everywhere, and everyone can teach us something. For example, I have always had a tendency to greet most guests loudly and casually.
Over time, I realized that not everyone wants to be greeted with a shout or a litany of words in Latin or another language. When it comes to your behavior and greeting to a sedate older guest, you should take into account that someone prefers a calm greeting, asking about the day, but without shouting.
An extraordinary life is the result of decisions that deviate from what is familiar and easy. So pick something that You are already familiar with and improve it, that is going to be the easiest way to find something to dream about.
“I really want to be better barista”
What are my strong sides?
I'm always loud and greet people with enthusiasm
What are my weak sides?
Sometimes I’m to loud and greet people to en
What can I do better?
Calm down, slow down, observe more how people react on my greetings
To be better in any labor, is to be a better human.
If it comes to human relations feedback on what kind of reaction I was getting was a compass for me, what I should improve, to make others feel more comfortable. No stress, everything will work out, just don't give in to panic and old habits, then everything is on the right path and life is shaping up into a dream scenario, which is already being played out at the level of thoughts and is now manifesting itself. Time ceases to exist and action appears. It requires faith and commitment, but sincere faith can work miracles.